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10 Ways To Develop
Confidence In New Situations |
By: Maria Marsala
Do you
enjoy one-on-one networking, however, the thought of walking into room
full of people you don't know horrifies you? You're not alone. Yes, even
a social butterfly, President of the Social Committee in High School and
avid networker knows how you feel. Here are some of my tricks. And they
have all worked!
A great way to network at a conference is to volunteer at the
registration desk. Why? You get to say hello to everyone who registers
in your line and everyone who registers gets to see you behind the
registration table. At the event, you'll feel more comfortable talking
with people because you've "met" them already. And if those aren't
enough benefits, people will "recognize you" from the registration desk,
and be more likely to come talk with you.
Once you join a new group, ask the Chairperson what volunteer
opportunities are available. Take on a small or large task, based on
what you like to do and/or do something that may quietly help you market
your business.
If you teach a class or speak, go into the room early. Get a feel for
it, change it around if need be, and greet everyone who walks in with a
big "hello my name is ...". Bring name tags or recycle the tops of old
Manila folders, have each person put their name on it, and put it on the
table in front of them.
When you are planning to attend a meeting for the first time, call up
whomever you can from the organization. Ask them if you can meet them at
the meeting. Then you'll "know" someone that you can look for when you
arrive.
Carry a name tag in your glove compartment. Make one for personal use,
another for business use. Then people will feel more comfortable walking
up to you in meetings.
Put your notes on the back of duplicates of pictures (photography)
you've taken. Then they won't stick out so much from the podium (like
white paper or index cards do.)
Practice some opening lines and your handshake before you attend the
event. Practice using a mirror and ask your family to let you practice
on them, too.
Develop two a 30-second commercials (also called elevator speeches, USP
- unique selling propositions). One is for personal use, and the other
would be for business use. Jay Levinson of Guerrilla Marketing fame,
suggests creating a 7 word commercial, too.
Remember that everyone in that room is a human being, too. Everyone has
their own fears to deal with... and they might even be the same as
yours.
Find other ways to build your confidence, too. Email me the ones that
work for you.
About the Author:
© 2006 A former Wall Street trader, Maria Marsala is a nationally known
speaker and marketing coach. She helps small business owners turn their
articles into cash. Visit http://www.ArticleBanks.com to learn more and
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